Ubi idem et maximus et honestissimus amor est, aliquando praestat morte jungi, quam vita distrahi → Where indeed the greatest and most honourable love exists, it is much better to be joined by death, than separated by life.
con-flaccesco: ĕre,
I v. inch. n., to grow quite languid: fluctus conflaccescunt, subside, Gell. 2, 30, 2.
cōnflaccēscō, ĕre, intr., mollir, s’apaiser : Gell. 2, 30, 2.