εἰπὼν ἃ θέλεις, ἀντάκουε ἃ μὴ θέλεις → if you say what you want, hear in response what you don't want
prōspĭcĭenter: adv., v. prospicio. B.
prōspĭcĭentĕr, prudemment, avec sagesse : Gell. 2, 29, 1.