δεινὸν ποιεῖσθαι
From LSJ
νύμφην τ' ἄνυμφον παρθένον τ' ἀπάρθενον → wife unwed and virgin that is no virgin | bride that is no bride, virgin that is virgin no more | virgin wife and widowed maid | unwed bride and ravished virgin
Greek > English (Woodhouse)
be angry, be annoyed, be indignant, take it ill, think it a hardship, think it a shame