διαδορατίζομαι
From LSJ
Ἢ μὴ γάμει τὸ σύνολον ἢ γαμῶν κράτει → Aut caelebs vive aut dominus uxori tuae → Bleib ledig oder herrsche über deine Frau
English (LSJ)
A fight with spears, and generally, contend in battle, Plb.5.84.2, J.BJ5.3.3, M.Ant.4.3: metaph., 'break a lance', contend, Longin.13.4 (and so perh. in M.Ant. l.c.).