ἔργοισι χρηστός, οὐ λόγοις ἔφυν μόνον → a friend in deeds, and not in words alone
col-laxo: (conl-), āre, v. a., = rarefacio, χαυνόω>,I to make loose or porous: omnia circum lateramina, Lucr. 6, 233; Cael. Aur. Acut. 3, 3, 20; id. Tard. 2, 1, 20.