οὐ γὰρ αὐθάδης οὐδ' ἐπαχθής ὁ χρηστός, οὐδ' αὐθέκαστος ἐστιν ὁ σώφρων ἀνήρ → the man of value is not arrogant or insufferable, and the wise man is not a smug
pĕrămantĕr, adv., très affectueusement : Cic. Fam. 9, 20, 3.