τὸ μὴ γὰρ εἶναι κρεῖσσον ἢ τὸ ζῆν κακῶς → for it is better not to exist than to live in misery
P. ἐπικήδειος, V. κήδειος, ἐπιτύμβιος.
Met., of a voice: use P. and V. βαρύς.