λύπης ἰατρός ἐστιν ὁ χρηστὸς φίλος → a true friend is grief's physician, a worthy friend is a physician to your pain
vīlĭpendo: ĕre, v. a. vilis-pendo,I to hold in slight esteem, to depreciate, despise, vilipend: aliquem, Plaut. Truc. 2, 6, 58.
