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From LSJ

οὐ γὰρ αὐθάδης οὐδ' ἐπαχθήςχρηστός, οὐδ' αὐθέκαστος ἐστιν ὁ σώφρων ἀνήρ → the man of value is not arrogant or insufferable, and the wise man is not a smug

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