ξένῳ δὲ σιγᾶν κρεῖττον ἢ κεκραγέναι → it's better for a stranger to keep silence than to shout (Menander)
grăvāmen: ĭnis, n. id.,I trouble, physical inconvenience (late Lat.), Cassiod. Varr. 9, 2; Cod. Just. 5, 30, 5.