φθισήνωρ
From LSJ
ὃν οὐ τύπτει λόγος οὐδὲ ῥάβδος → if words don't get through, neither a beating will | if the carrot doesn't work, the stick will not work either | whom words do not strike, neither does the rod
English (LSJ)
ορος, ὁ, ἡ, (φθίω, ἀνήρ):—
A destroying or killing men, πόλεμος Il.2.833, 9.604, al., Hes.Th.431; θυμός AP9.457. [ῑ perh. metri gr., but in Il.2.833 φθεισ- is found in some codd. (including πολλὰ τῶν παλαιῶν ἀντιγράφων ap.Eust.356.20), and Choerob. in An.Ox.2.273, and shd. perh. be read.]