διὰ χαρίτων γίγνεσθαί τινι → be pleasing to one
Ar. and P. μαλακός, τρυφερός, P. ἄνανδρος, Ar. and V. μαλθακός (also Plato but rare P.).
womanish: P. and V. γυναικεῖος, V. γυναικόμιμος, γυναικόφρων, θηλύνους; see effeminate.