εἰπὼν ἃ θέλεις, ἀντάκουε ἃ μὴ θέλεις → if you say what you want, hear in response what you don't want
(see also ἀπείργω): exclude, hinder, prevent, lock out, shut out, ward off
arcere, to shut off, exclude, 2.39.1, 2.53.4, 3.45.3, 4.37.1.