ἐὰν ἃ τοῖς ἄλλοις ἐπιτιμῶμεν, αὐτοὶ μὴ δρῶμεν → avoid doing what you would blame others for doing
P. and V. λυπηρός, βαρύς, ἀνιαρός, ἀλγεινός, ἐπαχθής, δυσχερής, ὀχληρός; see vexatious.