λύπημα
From LSJ
οὐ γὰρ αὐθάδης οὐδ' ἐπαχθής ὁ χρηστός, οὐδ' αὐθέκαστος ἐστιν ὁ σώφρων ἀνήρ → the man of value is not arrogant or insufferable, and the wise man is not a smug
English (LSJ)
ατος, τό,
A pain, Antipho Soph.49 (pl.), D.C.55.17, f.l. in S.Tr.554.
German (Pape)
[Seite 70] τό, Kränkung, Schmerz; ἔχω Soph. Trach. 551; D. C. 55. 17.