δέχομαι
Ubi idem et maximus et honestissimus amor est, aliquando praestat morte jungi, quam vita distrahi → Where indeed the greatest and most honourable love exists, it is much better to be joined by death, than separated by life.
English (LSJ)
Ion., Aeol., Cret. δέκομαι, Hdt.9.91, Sapph.1.22, Pi.O.2.69, impf.
A ἐδεκόμην Hdt.3.135: fut. δέξομαι, Ep. also δεδέξομαι Il.5.238, also in AP5.8 (Rufin.), Aristid.Or.28(49).24; δεξοῦμαι SIG 360.29 (Chersonesus); δεχθήσομαι (in pass. sense) LXXLe.22.25: aor. ἐδεξάμην Il.18.238, etc., δεξάμην Pi.P.4.70; also ἐδέχθην (ὑπ-) E.Heracl.757(lyr., δεχθείς in pass.sense), J.AJ18.6.4, (εἰσ-) D.40.14 (Pass.): pf. δέδεγμαι Il.4.107, Pi.P.1.100, etc.; imper. δεδεξο Il.5.228, pl. δέδεχθε h.Ap.538; Ion. 3pl. ἀπο-δεδέχαται Hdt.2.43, al.:— Hom. also has Ep. impf. ἐδέγμην Od.9.513, 3sg. δέκτο Il.15.88, al., later ἔδεκτο Pi.O.2.54, Simon.184; imper. δέξο Il.19.10, pl. δέχθε A.R.4.1554; inf. δέχθαι E.Rh.525; part. δέγμενος Il.18.524 (also δέχμενος Hsch.); also a 3pl. pres. δέχαται Il.12.147; cf. προτίδεγμαι, and v. δεδοκημένος:— I of things as the object, take, accept, receive, etc., ἄποινα 1.20, etc.; μισθὸν τῆς φυλακῆς Pl.R.416e; φόρον Th.1.90; δ. τι χείρεσσι Od.19.355; τὸ διδόμενον παρά τινος Pl.Grg.499c; τι ἐν παρακαταθήκῃ παρά τινος Plb.33.6.2, etc.; δ. τί τινι receive something at the hand of another, δέξατό οἱ σκῆπτρον πατρώϊον Il.2.186, cf. IG12(3).1075(Melos, vi B. C.), etc.; accept as legal tender, ὀδελός GDI5011 (Gortyn); τι παρά τινος Il.24.429; τι ἔκ τινος S. OT1107(lyr.); τί τινος Il.1.596, 24.305, S.OT1163; also δ. τί τινος receive in exchange for .., χρυσὸν φίλου ἀνδρὸς ἐδέξατο Od.11.327; choose, τι δ. πρό τινος Pl.Lg.729d; μᾶλλον δ. τι ἀντί τινος Id.Grg. 475d: c. inf., prefer, δεξαίμην ἂν πάσας τὰς ἀσπίδας ἐρριφέναι ἢ . . Lys. 10.21, cf. Pl.Phlb.63b; δ. μᾶλλον . . X.HG5.1.14, Smp.4.12; οὐδεὶς ἂν δέξαιτο φεύγειν Th.1.143; Ὀρφεῖ συγγενέσθαι ἐπὶ πόσῳ ἄν τις δέξαιτ' ἂν ὑμῶν; Pl.Ap.41a; οὐκ ἂν δεξαίμην τι ἔχειν And.1.5. b catch, as in a vessel, ὀπὸν . . κάδοις δ. S.Fr.534.3. 2 of mental reception, take, accept without complaint, χαλεπόν περ ἐόντα δεχώμεθα μῦθον Od.20.271; κῆρα δ' ἐγὼ τότε δέξομαι Il.18.115. b accept graciously, τοῦτο δ' ἐγὼ πρόφρων δ. 23.647; of the gods, ἀλλ' ὅ γε δέκτο μὲν ἱρά 2.420; προσφιλῶς γέρα δ., of one dead, S.El.443; τὰ σφάγια δ. Ar.Lys.204, cf. Pi.P.5.86; τὸ χρησθέν, τὸν οἰωνὸν δ., accept, hail the oracle, the omen, Hdt.1.63, 9.91; δέχου τὸν ἄνδρα καὶ τὸν ὄρνιν Ar.Pl.63; δ. τὰ ἀγαθά IG22.410,al.; ἐδεξάμην τὸ ῥηθέν S.El.668: abs., δεχομένοις λέγεις θανεῖν σε A.Ag.1653, cf. X.An.1.8.17; accept, approve, τὸν λόγον, ξυμμαχίαν, Hdt.9.5, Th.1.37; τοὺς λόγους ib.95; διδόναι καὶ δέχεσθαι τὰ δίκαια ib.37, cf. h.Merc.312; δέχεσθαι ὅρκον, v. ὅρκος; accept a confession, and so forgive, ἀδικίαν LXX Ge.50.17. c simply, give ear to, hear, ὠσὶν ἠχήν E.Ba.1086; δ. ὀμφάν Id.Med.175 (lyr.); τὰ παραγγελλόμενα ὀξέως δ. Th.2.11,89. d take or regard as so and so, μηδὲ συμφορὰν δέχου τὸν ἄνδρα S.Aj.68; understand in a certain sense, ὅπῃ βούλει δέξασθαι ταύτῃ δέχου Pl.Ep.315c: c. inf., κῶλά με δέξαι νυνὶ λέγειν D.H.Comp.22, cf. Str.1.3.13, etc. e cap verses, σκόλια δ. Ar.V.1222. 3 take upon oneself, τὴν δαπάνην Plb.31.28.5: c. inf., undertake, SIG245.34. II of persons as the object, welcome, κόλπῳ Il.6.483; ἀγαθῷ νόῳ Hdt.1.60; ἐν μεγάροισι, ἐν δόμοισιν, Il.18.331, Od.17.110; δόμοις δ. τινά S.OT818; στέγαις, πυρὶ δ. τινά, E.Or.47; δ. χώρᾳ Id.Med.713; τῇ τόλει δ. to admit into the city, Th.4.103; ἀγορᾷ, ἄστει δ., Id.6.44; ἔσω ibid.; εἰς τὸ τεῖχος X.An.5.5.6; δ. τινὰ ξύμμαχον accept or admit as an ally, Th.1.43, etc.; accept as security, PGrenf.1.33.4, etc.: metaph. of places, τόποι τοὺς κατοικιζομένους ἵλεῳ δεχόμενοι Pl.Lg.747e; entertain, δείπνοις Anaxandr.41.2(anap.); δωρήμασιν S.OC4. 2 receive as an enemy, await the attack of, ἐπιόντα δ. δουρί Il.5.238, cf. 15.745; of a hunter waiting for game, 4.107; of a wild boar waiting for the hunters, 12.147; of troops, εἰς χεῖρας δ. X.An.4.3.31; τοὺς Λακεδαιμονίους δ. Hdt.3.54, cf. 8.28, Th.4.43; ἐπιόντας δ. Id.7.77; δ. τὴν πρώτην ἔφοδον Id.4.126; ἐδέξατο πόλις πόνον E.Supp.393. 3 expect, wait, c. acc. et fut. inf., ἀλλ' αἰεί τινα φῶτα . . ἐδέγμην ἐνθάδ' ἐλεύσεσθαι Od.9.513, cf. 12.230; also δέγμενος Αἰακίδην, ὁπότε λήξειεν Il.9.191; δεδεγμένος εἰσόκεν ἔλθῃς 10.62.—In these two last senses, Hom. always uses fut. δεδέξομαι, pf. δέδεγμαι, and δεδεγμένος, cf. δεδεγμένος ὁππόθ' ἵκοιτο Theoc.25.228; δέγμενος is used in sense 3 only, exc. in h.Cer.29, Merc.477: inf. δειδέχθαι as imper., expect, c. gen., βορέω Arat.795, cf. 907, 928. III rarely with a thing as the subject, occupy, engage one, τίς ἀρχὰ δέξατο ναυτιλίας [αὐτούς]; Pi.P.4.70. 2 receive, hold, τὴν τροφήν Arist.HA531a23,al.; οἰκίαι ἱκαναὶ δέξασθαι ὑμᾶς SIG344.10. 3 admit of, ψεῦδος οὐδὲν δ. ἁ τῶ ἀριθμῶ φύσις Philol.11; τὸ μᾶλλον Arist.Top.146a3, cf.D.H.Isoc.2. 4 Geom., contain, circum-scribe, γωνίας ἴσας Euc.3 Def.11; πεντάγωνον Papp.422.34. IV intr., succeed, come next, ὥς μοι δέχεται κακὸν ἐκ κακοῦ αἰεί Il.19.290; ἄλλος γ' ἐξ ἄλλου δέχεται χαλεπώτερος ἆθλος Hes.Th.800; ἄλλος ἐξ ἄλλου δ. Emp.115.12; of places, ἐκ τοῦ στεινοῦ τὸ Ἀρτεμίσιον δέκεται Hdt.7.176. (δέκομαι is prob. the original form, cf. Slav. desiti, dositi 'find'.)