Ubi idem et maximus et honestissimus amor est, aliquando praestat morte jungi, quam vita distrahi → Where indeed the greatest and most honourable love exists, it is much better to be joined by death, than separated by life.
at random: P. and V. εἰκῆ, φύρδην (Xen.), P. χύδην.
in disorder: P. ἀτάκτως, οὐδενὶ κόσμῳ, ταραχωδῶς.
helplessly: P. and V. ἀπόρως.